I need URGENT advice please! (sorry bout the length) 2nd post?

What advice are you looking for?? You already know you should leave him. You dont need us to tell you that. If you enjoy how he treats you, then stay with him. He will NEVER change no matter what you keep telling yourself. Why would you want to live the rest of your life living like this??? Life is too short to be unhappy. He's only using you because you are bringing home the $$$$. Time to open your eyes.